tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post2157382136222971891..comments2023-06-29T18:14:27.634+08:00Comments on Talk less, dance more.: Brain vomit...rocket.queen.http://www.blogger.com/profile/09004670030244521250noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-85280186524104002672009-08-12T09:45:19.740+08:002009-08-12T09:45:19.740+08:00I'm not going to chime n with an opinion on wh...I'm not going to chime n with an opinion on what you should do, but my sis & I were pretty much exactly 2-1/2 years apart & it was pretty great for us. Especially now she is probably my best friend. That said- I am a strong believer in 'what is meant to happen happens when it was meant to'. the fact that you are not really preventing, not really trying leaves a lot to fate/the universe/tao, etc. And I think that given Quin's age & the fact that you guys are still pretty young, leaves plenty of wiggle room for you. <br />I do understand the 'i do, but i don't' concept though. And pumpkin's only 4 months!jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17579483658489666087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-43953657887777796022009-08-12T02:17:19.029+08:002009-08-12T02:17:19.029+08:00Well congrats on the Limbo ::wink::
I know that fe...Well congrats on the Limbo ::wink::<br />I know that feeling only differetn, mine was because there is such a big gap between my kids (bigger now since I didn't know that I'd be IF).<br />But for me, I just thought "is there ever really a good time" and "what do I want for my son - to have someone IF something were to happen to me, as of now, he'd have nobody".<br />I look at Nancies girls and see them hold hands, dress up the same, dance and kiss and as much as I've loved watching my son, I now want THAT, I want to watch my kids with each other. So I do want one more. And with IF, I dont know that I'll ever prevent again unless I either have another baby or this one just gets too old that they wouldnt really enjoy each other, or if I just feel too old, but I dont plan on prevention when this one arrives.Birdeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00399625994008989851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-34861193750184145062009-08-12T01:26:58.654+08:002009-08-12T01:26:58.654+08:00Ahhhh Limbo. Not a fun place to be at all but you...Ahhhh Limbo. Not a fun place to be at all but you have to weigh these things, ask the questions to get the right answers for your family.<br /><br />I know you will come to the right conclusion, and am so happy you can get pregnant by yourselves... maybe it will surprise you how quickly it happens? <br /><br />Thinking of you... keep us posted!Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08249032117071588918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-26992470494526520372009-08-11T18:16:28.150+08:002009-08-11T18:16:28.150+08:00aw Jessi. (hugs) i was in limbo myself when jason ...aw Jessi. (hugs) i was in limbo myself when jason had already decided he was ready, ready. i too was worried about work & school. not going to tell you what you should do or any of that, just know that i feel ya. there are days now that i think "how are we going to manage that?" but it's a reminder to step back and realize that i'm not in control.<br /><br />also, jason doesn't wonder this but i do- i also sometimes wonder if Logan was a fluke. all of those months of charting + cycling normally + BDing perfectly = nada for 11 mos. (hugs) seeds of doubt are pesky little buggers.JoEllenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13836120905213535030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-14355241815121763962009-08-11T13:10:37.110+08:002009-08-11T13:10:37.110+08:00I agree, you should just go for it. Let the card f...I agree, you should just go for it. Let the card fall where they lay. <br /><br />There's never a "perfect" time to family build, but it sounds like ya'll are doing an outstanding job! The answers will come!<br />Good luck, hon!<br />*HUGS*Beautiful Messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-26457077947342093222009-08-11T10:47:38.613+08:002009-08-11T10:47:38.613+08:00I'm going to shoot baby dust your way too!! I ...I'm going to shoot baby dust your way too!! I think you should go for it:) My brother and I are 2 years apart and are best friends. I want my kids close together.<br /><br />PS. Where did you get your baby wrap/wearing thing? Does it tell you how to wrap it? M's too little for it. Thanks!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16071021178236981355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-46202803735280805482009-08-11T10:20:30.910+08:002009-08-11T10:20:30.910+08:00Colleen, you make a good point with things working...Colleen, you make a good point with things working themselves out. I always have faith that the Tao will show me the way once I have set my mind to something. I just need to shake the doubts and make that decision. It is hard not to look at our TTC journey that started over 3 years ago and worry, but you're right. I can't let it stop me.<br /><br />Shannon!! I have no idea about close kids. My sister and I are 3 years apart and we fought so much. I am always sorta hoping that we have an oops so I don't have to actually make a decision, but that would be too easy, right?rocket.queen.https://www.blogger.com/profile/09004670030244521250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-7702914569053242932009-08-11T09:55:42.142+08:002009-08-11T09:55:42.142+08:00Jessi-
I would like to join you in baby limbo.....Jessi- <br /><br />I would like to join you in baby limbo...<br /><br />...and I say we go for it! There will never be a perfect time to have another baby. I think there is something very special about having kids close in age. Of course, extremely hard when they are little, but extremely worth it when they are older. <br /><br />So I will sprinkle a little *baby dust* on you and hope a pleasant surprise is in your future!!<br /><br />--Shannon (WebMD PAL Grad)Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13713167025048529528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7527158483146202127.post-44586838340097329132009-08-11T09:19:16.937+08:002009-08-11T09:19:16.937+08:00Awe a baby :) I think you should just go for it. ...Awe a baby :) I think you should just go for it. All the things that you mentioned about Q requiring a lot of time and school will really work itself out. I know that you had some challenges (I hate to use that word) before, but in my opinion you shouldn't let it stop you. You know that if it's going to happen it will happen. It's frustrating I am sure, but some things are up to a higher power. I hope that it works out for you.Colleennoreply@blogger.com